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Drivers should prioritize safety, patience

April 29, 2025

I'm writing to share an experience I had today that highlights a contrast in driving styles, and perhaps offers a reflection on community and regional differences in road etiquette.

While Delaware drivers are generally known for their courtesy and patience, even during peak traffic, I encountered a stark exception this afternoon. Exiting the PNC Bank on Coastal Highway in Rehoboth Beach, I was faced with a situation requiring extra caution: A bicyclist was crossing the intersection as the light turned green. I yielded to ensure their safety, a standard practice for considerate drivers.

The driver behind me reacted with extreme impatience, honking aggressively and gesticulating wildly. After I completed my left turn, this individual proceeded to drive erratically, accelerating rapidly in front of me and repeatedly slamming on their brakes. This behavior exhibited clear signs of road rage, creating a dangerous and unsettling situation for other motorists.

Interestingly, their car displayed a bumper sticker for WBAB, a Long Island, N.Y. radio station. While I don't wish to make assumptions based solely on this observation, the driver's behavior strongly suggested a stark contrast to the generally more relaxed and courteous driving style prevalent in Delaware. Having lived in New York eight years ago, I recognized the aggressive driving style immediately, prompting a rather unwelcome wave of nostalgia for a less-pleasant aspect of my past.

My intention isn't to disparage New York drivers generally, but rather to highlight the importance of mindful and courteous driving, regardless of one's origin. Perhaps this incident serves as a gentle reminder to all drivers to prioritize safety and patience on the road, contributing to a more pleasant and safe driving experience for everyone. Adopting a "Slow Down, Lower Delaware" approach might benefit us all.

Anna Isliarik
Lewes
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